"FINALLY, a course for introverted, analytical women over 40 that gives me specific scripts for setting boundaries and being treated with respect—without being fake or feeling drained."

-Kathy Richardson, High School Teacher, Palos Heights, IL

 

ATTN: ANALYTICAL, INTROVERTED, or NEURODIVERGENT WOMEN OVER 40:

 

Discover the First Course Designed to Develop Your Natural Strengths into Communication Superpowers—With Specific Scripts and Tools You Won’t Find Anywhere Else. Learn to Set Boundaries, Get Respect, Silence Toxic People, and Reclaim Your Joy in 21 Days—Without Pretending to Be Someone You’re Not.

  

 50% OFF Until 12/2/24 or 25 Seats are Gone

BEGIN MY JOURNEY
For over 25 years I’ve taught communication skills and can tell you this:

When given the opportunity, analytical, introverted, and neurodivergent thinkers (like me) are more likely to outperform amiable or expressive types to whom verbal skills tend to come more naturally.

Why?

Because traits like:

  • Observation

  • Reflection

  • Empathy

  • Problem-solving

  • Technical Analysis

     

    are precisely the traits that make extraordinary communication possible—when paired with the right tools.

 But instead of realizing our strengths and building on them, so many of us are 

STUCK IN THE CYCLE of BLAME, BOUNDARIES,

AND THE BATTLE FOR RESPECT

YOU GET THE BLAME

You tried to rise above it, only to be thrown under the bus right in front of everybody when you weren't expecting it. Now, instead of looking like a leader, you look like a failure.

 NO ONE RESPECTS YOUR BOUNDARIES

You didn't set boundaries with your demanding boss, thinking it would keep the peace. Instead, you’re now drowning in extra work, feeling used.

YOUR WORDS DON'T HAVE THE WEIGHT THEY ONCE DID

You spoke your truth in that meeting, hoping to be heard, but instead, your ideas were brushed off, until, of course, someone else said the same thing.

YOU'RE STARTING TO DOUBT YOURSELF AND WONDER IF YOU WERE EVER RIGHT

You gave everything to that toxic relationship, only to find yourself replaying every conversation over and over, questioning your worth, and emotionally exhausted.

YOU'VE DEVELOPED SOCIAL ANXIETY

You went to the company mixer, but you spent most of the time in the bathroom stall avoiding everyone. It wasn't always like this and you don't know when everything changed.

ENROLL NOW

Why Traditional Approaches Fail You

 

     For too long, people have misunderstood analytical, introverted, or neurodivergent individuals. They see our thoughtfulness, private nature, or preference for reflection as flaws.

 

And their solution? 

We should change.


But here’s the truth: WE ARE NOT THE PROBLEM.

    

 

 

"Smile More" 

"Fake it Till You Make It"

"You Need to Put Yourself Out There"

 

Those approaches didn't work for me,

and only reinforced my idea that I wasn't good enough.

   

Here’s the good news: communication is a measurable, learnable LANGUAGE SKILL.

 

Like any language skill, it just requires clear benchmarks and the right resources to learn. This also means that like any language course, if you can’t track your progress and demonstrate measurable growth, it’s not going to be the right course for you, wouldn't you agree?

 
 

I'LL TURN YOUR NATURAL STRENGTHS INTO COMMUNICATION SUPERPOWERS  

 Here is what a course like this must have for you to get results:
 
  • Assessments: Start by understanding where you are now, so you can measure your progress.

  • Language-Based Tools: Learn to communicate like you would a new language—with flashcards, workbook lessons, video quizzes, and visual cues.

  • Practical Frameworks: Get scripts and techniques tailored to real-world challenges, from setting boundaries to gracefully shutting down insults.

  • The Right Framework for This Unique Skill Development: Read it, write it, speak it, and hear it—all designed to integrate into your daily life effortlessly.

 

THE RESULT: Reclaim Your Joy and Power in 21 Days

All it takes is 20 minutes a day—ten in the morning and ten in the evening—to transform the way you communicate. ONLY through doing that can you discover how to harness your natural strengths, then develop them into superpowers, and finally show the world the confident, unapologetic, and authentic version of you.

Let me guide you step by step. Together, we’ll move past the noise, fragile egos, and self-doubt. You’ll walk into every room with confidence, clarity, and dominion.

 

 IT'S TIME YOU STARTED

  • Taking Care of you, because you realize no one else will

  •  Acting like you work for money and valuing yourself (that means charging)

  •  NOT GIVING ONE SHIT ABOUT WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS. Not one.

I'M READY TO UNLEASH MY SUPERPOWER

STICK WITH ME AND I GUARANTEE IN JUST 21 DAYS,

YOU'LL DEVELOP THE SKILLS TO DO THESE THINGS: 

HERE'S HOW YOU'LL DO IT:

  • FREESTYLE SCRIPTS

   These are what you use to ensure you always have the perfect words when you need them.

  • CONTEXTUAL ASSESSMENT TOOLS

   You use these to identify hidden signals people send that reveal why they do things and what they need to hear. 

  • RESPONSE FRAMEWORKS

   Use these like visual guides that help you develop default responses so you can save your thinking for what matters.

  • SMALLTALK TEMPLATES

   Practice with these before you attend social gatherings so you'll always have the right words to effortlessly keep the conversations going.

  • DANGER PHRASES REVEALED

   These help you break bad verbal habits and replace them with ones that serve you.

  • FLASHCARD-STYLE PROMPTS

  These help you respond more automatically and effortlessly so you're not taken off guard by inconsiderate communicators.

  • DISENGAGEMENT SYSTEMS

   Using these help you leave what happens at work behind so you can be 100% present with people outside of work.

  • ENERGY MANAGEMENT STRATEGIES

  If you are feeling emotionally drained or physically exhausted, these will help you exchange that for feeling motivated and proud.

  • CUSTOMIZABLE TEMPLATES

   These help you learn to communicate authentically and effectively even when you don't have time to think about it.

 

  • POWER PHRASES

   Use these to quickly take back control by setting and enforcing clear boundaries.

  • WORKBOOK ROLE-PLAY

   These help you practice your skills without wasting time and having to "play" with others who don't know any more than you do.

  • ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION TACTICS

   These help you stand up for yourself and your ideas without making the fatal mistake of sounding defensive.

 

  • COPING STATEMENTS

   These train you to talk to yourself using the right structure and syntax so what you say has the intended effect.

  • EMOTIONAL REFRAMING TECHNIQUES

   Using these you'll learn to save your mental energy for what's really important and stop wasting it on people and things who should have no impact on you or your life.

  • REFLECTION WORKSHEETS

   These are what you'll use so you can see the progress you make and once you do, you'll never stop growing.

BEGIN MY TRANSFORMATION

Who Am I, and Why Am I Teaching This?

Hi, I’m Dan O’Connor 👋😊

Expert Communication Course Creator and Author

Empowering Professionals to Reclaim Respect, Boundaries, and Joy Through Loving Communication

And I'm about to change your life.

 Dan O'Connor For more than 20 years, I’ve been helping people transform their relationships—whether it’s shutting down toxic bosses, dealing with coworkers who try to steamroll them, or reclaiming their power from the self-doubt that keeps them stuck. As a bestselling author, keynote speaker, and communication course creator, I’ve built my career around giving people like you the tools to speak up, be heard, and reclaim your joy.

"Hey, Why Are You Teaching This—Isn’t It for Women? Wouldn’t a Woman Be Better?"

Dan O'Connor speaking Great questions. Here’s the answer:

1. I'm teaching this because I haven’t found anyone better. If I ever do, I’ll be the first to tell you. Right now, there’s no course out there like this. It’s practical, proven, and created with both heart and strategy. Until someone does it better, I’m here to deliver the best tools you’ll find anywhere.

2. Yes, this course is for women. Of course if you're a man dealing with these issues you're more than welcome and would benefit immensely. Most men, however, neither struggle with this nor care about it, which frankly is a huge contributor to the reason we're here. Bottom line: I have to serve my market and it's not men.

3. No, a woman wouldn’t necessarily be better at teaching this. Why would she? I mean, there may be a woman who may be better, but first of all it wouldn't be because she's a woman, and secondly, if she is out there, I sure can't find her and I've tried. Furthermore, let's say you wanted to attend a seminar because your house kept getting robbed and you wanted to secure it. There were two seminars teaching anti-theft techniques--one hosted by a victim of theft, and one by a successful career cat burglar. Which one would you choose to attend?

Bottom line: If you’re ready to transform how you communicate, I’m here to help—

no matter who you are.

Why My Courses Work

Practical Tools I don’t believe in asking you to change who you are. Instead, I’ll show you how to use your natural strengths—whether you’re introverted, analytical, or just tired of being told to “smile more.” My methods are tactical, mindful, and always authentic. You’ll learn to set boundaries, command respect, and communicate clearly in a way that feels true to you.

What Others Are Saying2178422926 

  • “Immediate, life-changing results.”
  • “Dan doesn’t just teach theory—he gives you scripts and phrases you can use right away.”
  • “His energy is contagious, and his strategies work.”

Why I’m the Right Person to Teach This

Dan's Mission My tools and strategies have transformed lives and workplaces across industries, starting with my own. In the process, I’ve been recognized with awards like:

  • YouTube Silver Play Button 
  • FeedSpot’s Top 3 Communication Blogs on the Planet
  • Amazon’s 4-Star Award for consistently high-rated books and training resources.

My customers work in organizations like Apple, The USDA, The US Air Force, and The European Conference on the Future of the Internet. But the success stories I value most come from everyday people who’ve used my methods to transform their lives.

Let’s Transform Your Communication Together

This course is the culmination of the best tools I've collected over the years on this subject. It’s not just about communication—it’s about changing everything, and if you can give me a chance, it will change everything for you--in a good way.

So come join me; let’s create a future where you’re seen, heard, and respected—

because you deserve nothing less.

STILL ON THE FENCE? LET’S CLEAR UP YOUR DOUBTS—NO MEDS, NO THERAPY, JUST RESULTS YOU CAN ACTUALLY SEE

You shouldn’t have to rely on counseling or medication just to make it through another week of feeling overlooked, dismissed, or emotionally drained. If you’re wondering whether this is the right step for you, remember: it’s only 20 minutes a day. And even if you don’t finish the program, every lesson you complete will give you tools you can use for a lifetime.

This course isn’t about turning you into someone you’re not. It’s about building confidence, respect, and peace of mind—on your terms. So, if you’re still doubting, take a deep breath and know this: nothing changes until you decide to step into the life you deserve, and it's natural to feel uncomfortable when you realize you're about to make decision that will change your life significantly, and if you've gotten this far, you know that this course will do just that.

So let’s answer your questions and help you make that decision, OK?

Special Pre-Launch Bonus:

Smart Coaching – Your Personalized Support System.

As part of the pre-launch exclusive, I’m offering something you won’t find in other programs: Smart Coaching. This isn’t your typical coaching that requires scheduling and live calls. Instead, it’s designed to work seamlessly with your life.

Here’s how it works:

 • 24-Hour Response Time: Send in your questions or comments anytime, and I’ll respond personally within 24 hours.

 • No Scheduling Hassles: No need to rearrange your day for a coaching call. Reach out when it’s convenient for you.

 • Always Accessible: Every exchange is written, so you’ll have a transcript you can revisit as often as you need.

 • Stress-Free Communication: There’s no pressure to think on the spot during a live session. Take your time to articulate your questions or concerns.

 • Tailored to You: Get specific advice based on your challenges and goals—no generic templates or one-size-fits-all answers.

 • Flexible and Private: Whether you’re navigating a tricky conversation or refining your new skills, you can seek guidance discreetly, without anyone knowing.

This is a limited-time opportunity. After this pre-launch phase, I typically offer coaching starting at $499 per session, and Smart Coaching isn’t an option. This means you’re getting personalized support at a level that won’t be available again—at a fraction of the cost.

Why Smart Coaching Is a Game-Changer

Here’s what past clients have said about working with me:

 “Dan’s insights came exactly when I needed them most. His direct answers saved me from overthinking and helped me take action immediately.”

 “I never realized how valuable written coaching could be. Now I can go back and review his advice before big conversations. It’s like having a guide in my pocket.”

 “This approach is perfect for introverts. I don’t have to be ‘on’ during a call, and I can ask the tough questions without worrying about how I’ll sound.”

Take advantage of this opportunity to get real-time, personalized support throughout your transformation journey. Together, we’ll ensure that every tool, script, and strategy works for you—no matter where you’re starting from.

This bonus is only available during the pre-launch period. Register before December 2 to add Smart Coaching, normally unavailable, and when it is available prices start at $1497, but during this event I'm taking $1,000 off only for students of this course,

MAKING IT AVAILABLE AS AN ADD-ON FOR JUST $497.

ENROLL NOW
 

What Exactly Will You Get From 

THE 21-DAY COMMUNICATION BLUEPRINT?

 

Clarity, Confidence, and Boundaries Without Sacrificing Kindness.

 

Tired of being overlooked, undervalued, or dismissed? In just three weeks, this step-by-step system will help you build clear, confident communication skills that enable you to command respect and set boundaries—without sacrificing your authenticity or kindness.

Whether you’re navigating toxic work environments, struggling to find your voice in meetings, or simply seeking more meaningful connections, this program equips you with actionable strategies tailored to introverted, analytical, and neurodivergent women over 40 who (as you know if you're in this group) face a unique set of challenges.

It’s time to reclaim your time, reimagine your reputation, and redefine how the world sees you, don't you think?

Here's the course curriculum as it stands now.

Those who pre-register before December 10 2024 have the opportunity to influence this, so if you have specific challenges you don't see here, the way to ensure you get your answers is to register early; that will ensure you get your answer in the course or in a personal note from me (if that's more appropriate).

 

THE COURSE CURRICULUM:

PHASE 1: Building the Foundation

Focus on detoxing from negativity, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your confidence.

PHASE 2: Mastering Communication Techniques

Learn to handle challenging conversations, navigate tricky dynamics, and stand out in group settings.

PHASE 3: Owning Your Voice and Building Resilience

Develop the skills to command attention, manage emotional triggers, and lead with confidence.

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HERE'S WHAT YOU GET WHEN YOU REGISTER:

Lifetime Access to the Course

 • Learn at your own pace with unlimited access to the course materials.

 • Access from any device—desktop, tablet, or mobile—anytime, anywhere.

 • Updates included at no extra cost, so your tools stay relevant and cutting-edge.

NB: You will gain immediate access to the community and smart coaching. You will have access to the course starting December 1, and access is forever, even when there are updates, there is no extra cost.

The Workbook

 • Packed with scripts, contextual assessment tools, flashcards, and infographics, this workbook is your go-to resource for building confidence and practicing your skills.

 • Includes interactive exercises and assessments to track your progress and keep you motivated.

 • Printable and digital versions available for ultimate flexibility.

Audio-Only Lessons

 

 • Download the audio versions of the lessons to listen on the go.

 • Perfect for busy schedules—transform your commute, workout, or downtime into a powerful learning session.

Early Access Perk: Shape the Program

 

 • If you register now, you’ll have the unique opportunity to influence the course content.

 • Share your specific challenges, questions, or needs, and I’ll incorporate them into the final materials.

 • Be part of the creation process and get solutions tailored to your unique experiences.

Special Pre-Launch Bonus: Smart Coaching

 

 • Get personalized support, with direct answers to your questions within 24 hours.

 • No scheduling stress—just send your questions when it’s convenient for you.

 • Only available until December 1, after which coaching starts at $499 per session with no Smart Coaching option.

Community Add-On

 

Join a private community of like-minded individuals on the same journey, where you can connect, share, and grow together. This isn’t just a bonus—it’s a powerful tool to enhance your success in the program.

Here’s how being part of this community will help you:

 • Peer Support and Feedback: Get encouragement, share wins, and exchange tips in a supportive and empowering environment.

 • Accountability: Studies show that learners in a community are 3x more likely to stick with their goals, thanks to peer accountability and shared motivation.

 • Higher Completion Rates: Research reveals that community involvement can boost course completion rates by up to 85%, helping you stay consistent and see results.

 • Improved Knowledge Retention: Learners engaging in group discussions retain 69% more information compared to studying alone.

 • Collaborative Problem-Solving: Gain fresh perspectives on challenges through discussions, leading to deeper understanding and better solutions.

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100% Risk-Free, No Questions Asked Money-Back Guarantee

 

Our 100% Money-Back Guarantee: Total Confidence, Zero Risk

 

We fully believe in the life-changing potential of the 30-Day Communication Mastery Challenge. That’s why we offer a 100% No-Questions-Asked Money-Back Guarantee.

If, at any time during the challenge, you feel this program isn’t right for you, simply let us know, and we’ll refund your full investment—no questions asked.

Your satisfaction and personal growth are our top priorities, and we’re confident that this challenge will create lasting positive change in your life. But if it doesn’t, you can rest easy knowing you’re protected by our guarantee.

You have absolutely nothing to lose—just transformative communication skills to gain.

Pre-Registration PLUS

Black Friday Event Ends

These Black Friday + Pre-Registration Specials are only available until December 2, 2024—or until all spots are gone!

 

Once the timer hits zero:

 • Smart Coaching will no longer be free.

 • Prices will increase to their regular rates (up to $4,464 for the full VIP package).

And remember: Smart Coaching and VIP Pass spots are limited. Once they’re filled, the opportunity to get this level of personalized support and access disappears.

🚨 Don’t miss out! Lock in your spot now while the clock is still ticking!

All discounts will end when 25 people register the timer runs out--whichever is first.

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ESSENTIALS

$997

Start Strong and Build Confidence

 Ideal for go-getters ready to transform their communication skills. 

 

  • Lifetime Access to the 21-Day Communication Blueprint

  • A Comprehensive Workbook designed for clarity and action

  • Audio-Only Lessons for easy learning on the go

  • Exclusive Access to a private, supportive community

  • Essentials Regular Price: $1,997
    Black Friday + Pre-Registration Special 
  • *$500 OFF Cyber Monday
  • **$500 OFF Pre-Registration

Total PROMOTIONAL Price: $997

Make the leap.

Your communication transformation starts here.

START MY TRANSFORMATION

PLUS COACHING

$1494

Get Personalized Guidance

 For those who crave tailored support and faster results.

 

  • Everything in the Essentials Package
  • Smart Coaching – Get personalized advice within 24 hours
  • Exclusive Insider Access to influence future program content 
  • Essentials Normally: $1,997
  • Smart Coaching Normally: $1,497
    Total Regular Price: $3,494

Black Friday + Pre-Registration Special

  • *$500 OFF Cyber Monday
  • **$500 OFF Pre-Registration
  • ***$1,000 Off Smart Coaching

 Total PROMOTIONAL Price: $1,494 

Why go alone?

Gain the support and insight to truly thrive. 

ADD SMART COACHING

VIP PASS

$1964

Unlock the Ultimate Toolkit

 For ambitious learners

who want it all. 

  • Everything in the Plus Coaching Package PLUS
  • One-Year VIP Pass – Unlock my entire digital store Advanced tools to master customer service, leadership, and more
  • Essentials Normally: $1,997
  • Smart Coaching Normally: $1,497
  • VIP Pass Normally: $970
    Total Regular Price: $4,464

 Black Friday + Pre-Registration Special

  • *$500 OFF Cyber Monday
  • **$500 OFF Pre-Registration
  • ***$1,000 Off Smart Coaching
  • ****$500 OFF VIP

  Total PROMOTIONAL Price: $1,964 

Step up.

Get every advantage at your fingertips. 

I WANT IT ALL

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These Black Friday + Pre-Registration Specials are only available until December 2, 2024—or until all spots are gone!

 

Once the timer hits zero:

 • Smart Coaching will no longer be free.

 • Prices will increase to their regular rates (up to $4,464 for the full VIP package).

And remember: Smart Coaching and VIP Pass spots are limited. Once they’re filled, the opportunity to get this level of personalized support and access disappears.

🚨 Don’t miss out! Lock in your spot now while the clock is still ticking!

All discounts will end when 25 people register the timer runs out--whichever is first.

 

*$500 Black Friday Special Expires December 2, 2024

**$500 Pre-Registration Discount Expires December 2, 2024

***FREE VIP PASS (Item valued at over $2,000 in courses, and no longer available to the public) Gives you access to all the items in our digital store for one year. Special will expire once the 25th person 

registers for this course, or On December 2, or for no reason whatsoever.

****$1000 off Smart Coaching (valued at over $1497) special will expire once the 25th person registers for this course, or On December 2, or for no reason whatsoever.

 These discounts may expire at any time with no notice and will expire once the 25th person registers for this course, or On December 2, or for no reason whatsoever.

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