How Smart Women Shut Down Backhanded Compliments at Work

Why Smart Women Never Ignore Backhanded Compliments—They Say THIS Instead

Learn the exact phrases and body language tricks to stop passive-aggressive coworkers without being mean, fake, or defensive.

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Sound Familiar?

You’re doing great work, and someone says:

  • “Wow, you actually did a great job.”
  • “I didn’t expect that from you!”
  • “You’re really well-spoken.”
  • “You’re not like the other women here.”

If you've ever smiled and nodded—then felt that sting of disrespect—you're not alone. But there's a better way.

The Fix: Power, Poise, and Presence

In this quick masterclass, Dan O'Connor shows you:

  • 3 toxic habits that invite backhanded compliments (and how to unlearn them)
  • Exact power phrases that shift the dynamic instantly
  • Simple body language cues to reclaim space and presence

What You'll Walk Away With

  • Scripts you can use in real-life situations
  • Confidence tools that work—even if you’re introverted or neurodivergent
  • Tools to reclaim your power and dignity—without playing the game
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